How I use Cemeteries in TNG

The documentation on cemeteries in TNG confuses me. I am currently using v13.

After much experimentation and adjusting, I have settled on a way that I like to use cemeteries.

My objectives are:

1. I only want to track burial places of my direct ancestors, although others can get swept in.
2. I don't want to showcase every cemetery from my database.
3. I don't want to replace or replicate FindaGrave, BillionGraves, Internment.net, ObitsArchive, Obituary Daily Times, or any other like-minded website. While I often search these sites to find clues to my ancestors, they do a better job at what they do than I could ever hope for. They absolutely suppleement my research.

The parts to Cemeteries in TNG are:

• Cemeteries - of course
• People - who is supposedly buried (or honored) at the cemetery.
• Media - photos of the cemetery uploaded to your server
• Headstones - media files attached to people

Cemeteries

The fun part.

After you have imported people with burial places, you can create a cemetery.

1. In admin mode, go to Cemeteries, then click Add New.
   
   
   
   
   
2. In the Associated Place field, enter the first few letters of the cemetery name, then click the Find icon. TNG will search Places for items matching your cemetery name. Pick the one you want from the list. If it's not there, create a new Place (in Admin mode), then try again.
3. Click Fill Place. The data automatically enters into the fields.
   Any field that isn't included might not populate correctly. For example, if you don't have a county in your place name, your info might be shifted or missing altogether.
• Be sure to create State and Country field data before you import. For example, if you are missing the state of Connecticut from your list, any Cemeteries in Connecticut might not auto-fill. Click Add New.
4. Check the information in the other fields. You can modify the data in any field, but leave the Associated Place info as it is, so the burials can be found.
5. If you have a Google Maps API key, you can link to a map location. See https://tng.lythgoes.net/wiki/index.php/Google_Maps_-_Getting_Started
6. Click Save & Exit. 

People

Be sure the Burial field is spelled exactly correctly. And extra space or punctuation could cause linking failure. All people having that exact Cemetery name in the Burial field will automatically show up in the Cemeteries section of the public site.

Media

While in Admin mode, upload any cemetery photos you have and save them in the Headstone collection. You don't need cemetery photos to create a Cemetery.

Headstones

This one is tricky. Save your headstone photos in the Headstones collection and link them to the appropriate person.

The Headstones collection has some options not available to other media. These are the settings I use:

The Title and Description show up in the Person record:

Once a cemetery has been created, you can link to it from the drop down list.

This shows up in the Cemetery public listing:

Click the cemetery name in the public version to see all the burials you have for this cemetery:

For more details on the other options, see https://tng.lythgoes.net/wiki/index.php/Cemeteries

How I use Reunion Notes

Sometimes my notes appear in Reunion for Mac under the wrong person. It's as if the information got shuffled around. I can tell because the information is obviously incorrect. I often can't tell where it belongs, so I often simply delete the note and hope for the best. It doesn't happen all the time, but enough to be frustrating. I don't know how it happens or how to fix it. I only know it happens until I come upon a record with the wrong data. Grrrr.

So lately, I have been using Reunion's linking feature within my notes, so when I find an errant note, I will know where it goes.

For example.

I often simply list the children within the Mother's notes, instead of creating a record for each. My database is big enough. So a note would look like this:

If the father is not namedd SMITH, then I would know something is wrong. It would take a lot of time and energy to find out where it goes.

Usually my notes are more generic:

How can I know it's in the correct place?

Here is a more obvious example:

To combat this, I have started adding links to the people mentioned:

I drag the names from the People list to create an automatic link. Now when I find "lost" notes, at least I have a chance to put them back where they belong.

If I feel extra energectic, I can link the children to any records I have created.

An indicator appears on the Person card when any links have been applied.

These links show up in TNG as Associations, if you import the Linker and the Linkee together.

How I Manage My Genealogy Site

The main software I use to manage my genealogy site are:

1. Reunion for Mac - to enter my data and track my research.
2. TNG to post on my website.

I have used these for several years now, while continually testing other software for features I might need. Reunion and TNG give me everything I need.

My workflow is to enter my research into Reunion, then upload my changes and new data into TNG.

In the early days, I would use the Web feature in Reunion to generate static web pages.  When my database got too big (around 10,000 names), thismethod became a bit onerous. I had to completely upload the entire website (each entry was a separate page), which not only took some time to generate, but uploading to my web server would take hours. I often started the upload right before bedtime and hoped it didn't time out before morning.

TNG (The Next Generation of Genealogy Sitebuilding) streamlines updates. My web pages are static, and I have a bunch of cool features that static pages can't provice. You need your own hosting server with Sql database capabilities. I am not afraid of technology, so I was able to get it going right away. They offer install services for a nominal fee, so even newbies don't need to feel intimidated.

I am giving my opinion and explaining how I work, and am not paid aor endorsed.

My data is constantly being updated and corrected. I have quite a few names in my database, so it's a little bit of work to keep everything correct. I generally work on my genealogy every day.

Were the Puritans a cult?

My English ancestors came during the Puritan days, which makes me reflect on my Puritan heritage. Turns out, they weren't all Puritans. The non-religious, Congregationalists, and those who believed in God but didn't practice a religion were also among the settlers. Who knew?

The Pilgrims shouldn't be confused with the Puritans. The Puritans and the Pilgrims were two distinct groups of English Protestant settlers who came to America in the early 17th century, but they differed in their religious beliefs and motivations. The Pilgrims, also known as Separatists, completely separated from the Church of England and formed their own congregations.They believed the Church of England was corrupt and could not be reformed. In contrast, the Puritans remained within the Church of England but sought to purify and reform it from within.

The Puritans were a contradictory lot; preaching one thing and practicing another. They believed, for example, that you were predestined to go to Heaven. Or where ever. Nothing you could do could get you into Heaven if God didn't want you there. So what was the point in being "good?" It seems like it didn't matter. And don't get me started on the whole land-grab thing, and then wondering why Indians attacked when you stole their crops and killed their women and children.

What do Puritans have in common with cults?

1. Authoritarian Leadership: A central, charismatic leader who exercises absolute control over members and often claims special knowledge or divine insight. The Puritans were led by influential religious leaders who exercised significant control over the community's beliefs and practices.
2. Isolation: Cults often isolate members from family, friends, and society to maintain control and discourage dissenting viewpoints. The Puritans often isolated themselves from mainstream society, creating close-knit, self-sufficient communities to maintain their religious purity and practices.
3. Exclusivity: Cults typically believe they are the only true path to salvation or enlightenment and discourage association with non-members. Puritans believed they were chosen to create a "city upon a hill," setting a moral example for others but maintaining a sense of exclusivity and separation from those not adhering to their strict religious codes.
4. Us vs. Them Mentality: Cults foster a strong sense of in-group vs. out-group, creating an environment of distrust towards outsiders and reinforcing loyalty within the group. The Puritans had a strong sense of being a distinct group with a divine mission, often viewing those outside their community as morally inferior or damned.
5. Exploitation: Members are often exploited financially, emotionally, or physically, with resources and labor benefiting the leadership. Puritan leaders exercised control over various aspects of members' lives, including religious practices, moral conduct, and even personal behavior, such as dress and social interactions.
6. Coercive Persuasion: Cults use intense indoctrination methods, including thought-reform practices, to influence members' beliefs and behaviors. The Puritans excelled at coercive control.
• Public Shaming and Humiliation: Puritans used public punishments, such as placing offenders in stocks or pillories, to shame individuals for moral or religious transgressions. This served as a deterrent to others.
• Excommunication and Banishment: Those who violated the community's religious or moral codes could be excommunicated from the church or banished from the community entirely, effectively cutting them off from their social and spiritual support systems.
• Mandatory Church Attendance: Attendance at church services was compulsory, and those who failed to attend regularly faced fines or other penalties. This ensured conformity and control over religious practices.
• Sumptuary Laws: The Puritans enforced strict dress codes to prevent ostentation and promote modesty. These laws dictated what individuals could wear based on their social status, and violators faced fines or other penalties.
• Moral Policing: Community members were encouraged to report on each other’s behavior, creating a culture of surveillance and mutual policing. This extended to private matters, such as adherence to Sabbath observance and proper conduct.
• Blasphemy and Heresy Trials: Individuals accused of blasphemy, heresy, or witchcraft were subjected to trials, which could result in severe punishments, including execution. These trials reinforced religious orthodoxy and instilled fear of dissent.
• Censorship of Literature and Speech: The Puritans censored books and other materials that were considered morally or religiously inappropriate. They also restricted speech that challenged or questioned the community's beliefs and practices.
• Economic Sanctions: Economic penalties, such as fines or confiscation of property, were used against those who violated community norms. This had a significant impact, as economic survival often depended on being in good standing with the community.
• Physical Punishment: Physical punishments, such as whipping or branding, were used for various offenses, reinforcing the consequences of deviating from accepted norms and behaviors.
  
7. Control Over Personal Lives: Cults often dictate or heavily influence members' personal decisions, including relationships, employment, and daily activities. The Puritans exerted control over personal relationships, including marriage. Couples needed the approval of the community and church leaders, and marriages were often arranged to ensure they aligned with community values.
8. Extreme Commitment: High demands for loyalty and commitment, often requiring members to cut ties with their past lives and fully devote themselves to the group. Members of Puritan communities were expected to demonstrate a high level of commitment to their faith, including regular church attendance, adherence to strict moral codes, and active participation in community life.
9. Fear and Punishment: Use of fear, guilt, and punishment to maintain control and discourage questioning or leaving the group. The Puritans used fear of divine wrath and social ostracism to enforce conformity and maintain control. Those who deviated from accepted norms could face severe punishment, including public shaming, fines, or banishment.
10. Secrecy: Cults frequently operate in secrecy, with teachings and practices revealed gradually to members, creating an environment of mystery and control. While the Puritans were not secretive in the same way modern cults might be, they did have a closed community structure where certain religious rites and community decisions were kept within the group.
11. Promise of Fulfillment: Offering seemingly impossible promises of happiness, success, or salvation to attract and retain members. The Puritans believed in the promise of a pious, godly life leading to salvation and a better existence in the afterlife, motivating members to adhere strictly to their beliefs and practices.
12. Uniformity and Conformity: Encouraging or enforcing uniformity in behavior, appearance, and beliefs to maintain group cohesion and control. There was a strong emphasis on uniformity in religious practice, dress, and behavior to maintain the community's cohesion and moral integrity.

Legacy

Puritanism is still around today, but in different forms. After a generation, people turned away from Puritanism to have it be replaced in other forms.

Some examples are:

Evangelical Protestantism
Many evangelical Protestant denominations, such as Baptists, Presbyterians, and certain Methodist and Pentecostal churches, share similarities with Puritanism. These include:

• Emphasis on personal conversion and a direct relationship with God[1][3]
• Strict adherence to biblical literalism and moral codes[1][3]
• Belief in predestination and the doctrine of election (being chosen by God)[1][3]
• Promotion of values like hard work, self-discipline, and austerity[1][3]

Fundamentalist Christianity
Fundamentalist Christian groups, such as certain Baptist and non-denominational churches, exhibit Puritan-like traits:

• Strict interpretation of the Bible and rejection of modern biblical criticism[1][3]
• Emphasis on personal piety, moral purity, and separation from worldly influences[1][3]
• Promotion of traditional gender roles and family values[1]

Anabaptist Traditions
Anabaptist traditions like the Amish, Mennonites, and Hutterites share some similarities with Puritanism:

• Emphasis on simplicity, plainness, and separation from the world[1][3]
• Strict moral codes and community discipline[1][3]
• Promotion of values like hard work, self-denial, and humility[1][3]

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (Mormons) and spin-offs
While not directly descended from Puritanism, the Mormon faith shares some values:

• Emphasis on personal righteousness, moral purity, and family values[3]
• Promotion of self-discipline, hard work, and education[3]
• Strict adherence to religious codes and authority structures[3]

Note that while these modern religions share some traits with Puritanism, they have also evolved and adapted over time, and can differ significantly in other aspects of their beliefs and practices.[1][3]

Citations:
[1] https://www.monergism.com/puritan-character
[2] https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/small-town-usa/202206/the-puritans-are-back-did-they-ever-leave
[3] https://www.studysmarter.co.uk/explanations/history/us-history/puritans/
[4] https://www3.nd.edu/~rbarger/www7/puritans.html
[5] https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/social-sciences/puritanism

Castles in my Family - Raby Castle

 

Raby Castle stands near Staindrop in County Durham, England. It rises among 200 acres of deer park. John Neville, the 3rd Baron Neville de Raby, built it between 1367 and 1390. Cecily Neville, mother to Kings Edward IV and Richard III, was born here.

In 1569, Charles Neville, 6th Earl of Westmorland, led the Rising of the North to support Mary, Queen of Scots. He failed, and Raby Castle fell to the Crown. Sir Henry Vane the Elder bought it in 1626. The Earls of Darlington and Dukes of Cleveland later added a Gothic entrance hall and an octagonal drawing room.

The castle, known for its size and art, including works by old masters and portraits, saw extensive changes in the 17th and 18th centuries. From 1833 to 1891, it was home to the Dukes of Cleveland, who still hold the title of Lord Barnard. The poet Christopher Smart frequented Raby Castle from age eleven. He eloped briefly at thirteen with Anne Vane, daughter of Henry Vane.

You can visit Raby Castle today. See https://www.raby.co.uk/raby-castle/.

Castles in my Family - Pevensey Castle and the Tower of London

William the Conqueror came to England and, among other things, established his presence by commandeering, building, and repairing many previously existing castle sites. The famous Tower of London is the site of one of his first fortifications.

Pevensey Castle was in ruins when William came across it. He made a few repairs and used it as a temporary shelter.

For more on William's castles, see https://www.tripsavvy.com/castles-of-william-the-conqueror-4051210.

My genealogical link to William the Conqueror

King William's and Queen Matilda's 4th son Henry, also known as Henry (BEAUCLERC) 1, was successor to the crown of England after his brother.

Castles in my Family - Brus Castle

Robert de Brus (the 6th great-grandfather of the famous king of Scotland Robert 1 the Bruce), built the castle of Brus (now Brix) in the Cherbourg Peninsula. The Brus family occupied the castle for generations.

 

Robert fought with William the Conqueror at the Battle of Hastings, and was rewarded with lands in France (located between Cherbourg and Valognes).

 

 

The castle was eventually destroyed by the order of King Saint Louis, after hearing that Richard the Lionheart and John with Land had stayed there. Some stones of the castle were used to rebuild the local church and village houses. The Bruce family also had lands in England, living there and giving up its lands in France.

 

Today, you can see ruins of the original castle, such as the foundation and the remains of a spiral staircase.

Genealogy of the Bruce Family

http://www.brucefamily.com/lineage.htm